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How many people are involved in the life of any one alcoholic? Family, friends, employer, co-workers... It is important to remember that all these people are affected by alcoholism--not just the alcoholic. Many of them spend a lot of time and energy trying to "fix" the alcoholic: covering up for them, punishing them, taking responsibility for them.

Living with alcoholism has been described as living on a merry-go-round, where each family member, friend, and employer plays a role with the alcoholics in their lives. These behavior patterns are like the script of a play, repeated over and over, centering on the alcoholic. A player can learn a new role by attending Al-Anon, gaining understanding of the disease of alcoholism and how it has affected them. When this happens, and the person changes their behavior, they are rewriting the script. There is no guarantee that the alcoholic will change, but the alternative is staying on the "merry-go-round." Insanity can be defined as "doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results." Changing one's behavior can be uncomfortable and very difficult to do, but members learn that they have to take responsibility for themselves and their own recovery.

excerpt taken from:http://www.soberrecovery.com/articles-library/Al-anon_Ala-teen.html

 
Alcohol and Substance Addiction defined:
 

Alcoholism is a primary, chronic disease with genetic, psychosocial, and environmental factors influencing its development and manifestations. The disease is often progressive and fatal. It is characterized by continuous or periodic: impaired control over drinking, preoccupation with the drug alcohol, use of alcohol despite adverse consequences, and distortions in thinking, most notably denial.

 Primary refers to the nature of alcoholism as a disease entity in addition to and separate from other pathophysiologic states which may be associated with it and suggests that alcoholism, as an addiction, is not a symptom of an underlying disease state.

 Disease means an involuntary disability. It represents the sum of the abnormal phenomena displayed by a group of individuals. These phenomena are associated with a specified common set of characteristics by which these individuals differ from the norm, and which places them at a disadvantage.

 Often progressive and fatal means that the disease persists over time and that physical, emotional, and social changes are often cumulative and may progress as drinking continues. Alcoholism causes premature death through overdose, organic complications involving the brain, liver, heart and many other organs, and by contributing to suicide, homicide, motor vehicle crashes, and other traumatic events.

Impaired control means the inability to limit alcohol use or to consistently limit on any drinking occasion the duration of the episode, the quantity consumed, and/or the behavioral consequences of drinking.

 Preoccupation in association with alcohol use indicates excessive, focused attention given to the drug alcohol, its effects, and/or its use. The relative value thus assigned to alcohol by the individual often leads to a diversion of energies away from important life concerns.

   Adverse consequences are alcohol-related problems or impairments in such areas as: physical health (e.g., alcohol withdrawal syndromes, liver disease, gastritis, anemia, neurological disorders); psychological functioning (e.g., impairments in cognition, changes in mood and behavior); interpersonal functioning (e.g., marital problems and child abuse, impaired social relationships); occupational functioning (e.g., scholastic or job problems); and legal, financial, or spiritual problems.

  Denial is used here not only in the psychoanalytic sense of a single psychological defense mechanism disavowing the significance of events, but more broadly to include a range of psychological maneuvers designed to reduce awareness of the fact that alcohol use is the cause of an individual's problems rather than a solution to those problems. Denial becomes an integral part of the disease and a major obstacle to recovery.

Alcohol & Drug Addiction - Other Person Diagnosis

If you think you may be affected by a friend, co-worker, or family member with an alcohol or other drug problem, the following test can help you determine if your suspicions are founded. Answer each question with a "yes" or "no."

Ø       Are you ever afraid to be around the person when he or she is drinking or using drugs because of the possibility of verbal or physical abuse?

Ø       Do you worry about the person's drinking or drug use?

Ø       Has the person broken promises to control or stop his/her drinking or drug use?

Ø       Have you ever made excuses for the way the person behaved while drinking or using?

Ø       Do you feel guilty about the person's drinking or drug use?

Ø       Do you feel anxious or tense around the person because of his or her drinking or drug use?

Ø       Are you afraid to ride with the person after he or she has been drinking or using?

Ø       Have you ever lied to anyone else about the person's drinking or drug use?

Ø       Have you ever helped the person "cover up" for a drinking or using episode by calling his or her employer, or telling others that he or she is feeling "sick"?

Ø       Have you ever been embarrassed by the person's drinking or drug use?

If you answered "yes" to three or more of these questions, then there is a good chance that the person you care about has a drinking or drug problem. If you answered "yes" to any five, the chance is even greater. And if you answered "yes" to seven or more, you can feel safe in assuming that the person you care about needs help.

Johnson Institute September 1996


Alcohol & Drug Addiction - Self Diagnosis

      Ø       Do you lose time from work due to drinking or drug use?

Ø       Is drinking or drug use making your home life unhappy?

Ø       Do you drink or use drugs because you are shy with other people?

Ø       Is drinking or drug use affecting your reputation?

Ø       Have you gotten into financial difficulties as a result of drinking or drug use?

Ø       Do you turn to lower companions and an inferior environment when drinking or using drugs?

Ø       Does your drinking or drug use make you careless of your family's welfare?

Ø       Has your ambition decreased since drinking or using drugs?

Ø       Do you crave a drink or drugs at a definite time daily?

Ø       Do you want a drink or drugs the next morning?

Ø       Does drinking or using drugs cause you to have difficulty in sleeping?

Ø       Has your efficiency decreased since drinking or using drugs?

Ø       Is drinking or using drugs jeopardizing your job or business?

Ø       Do you drink or use drugs to escape from worries or trouble?

Ø       Do you drink or use drugs alone?

Ø       Have you ever had a complete loss of memory as a result of drinking or drug use?

Ø       Has your physician ever treated you for drinking or drug use?

Ø       Do you drink or use drugs to build up your self-confidence?

Ø       Have you ever been to a hospital or institution on account of drinking or drug use?

A Yes to three or more questions indicates abuse or addiction is present and corrective steps need to be taken.

Questions are courtesy of Johns Hopkins University Hospital, Baltimore, Maryland

Al Anon and Family Related Links

Alcoholics Anonymous

Narcotics Anonymous

Cocaine Anonymous

Adult Children of Alcoholics

Approved by the Boards of Directors of the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, Inc. (February 3, 1990) and the American Society of Addiction Medicine (February 25, 1990). This definition was prepared by the Joint Committee to Study the Definition and Criteria for the Diagnosis of Alcoholism of the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence and the American Society of Addiction Medicine

reference: http://www.intervention.com/defns.html#addsd